Kick Porn: Don’t Be A Chicken

The biggest reason we don’t quit doing something we wish we could is fear! If you think you’re addicted to porn and have failed to take action it’s probably because you are afraid.

It’s healthy to admit that you are afraid, worried or anxious. To do so requires strength Shibuya Kaho . If you need support, talk to someone you can trust. When you express your worries and anxieties, they lose their power.

We are all afraid of something. You aren’t alone! We are afraid of changing and afraid of what will happen if we don’t change. We are afraid we will hurt someone or someone will hurt us. We are afraid of losing control and of being too controlling. We fear bad things will happen and good things won’t. We are afraid of who we are and who we could be. These are universal fears. Everyone has them.

If you’re addicted to porn you probably also fear attending 12-Step groups and talking in front of others. If you’re a porn addict you may fear having to talk to a therapist, minister or your partner about your addiction.

One of the biggest fears a porn addict has is getting close to others! It’s easy to sit in front of a computer and meet your sexual needs but a relationship means expressing feelings, becoming vulnerable and getting close. There is no where to hide in real face-to-face relationships.

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